Have you ever wondered, “When is it that one becomes an adult?” Is it the day that we turn 18 and become legally responsible for ourselves (in Canada); or is it the day we turn the age of majority (at least in BC)? Is one day that different from the next, making me a totally different person? The movement from childhood/adolescence to adulthood is of course not simply the passing of 12 midnight on the clock on a particular day, but a process of maturing in many areas.
The goal of Christian discipleship is to make us mature into the likeness of Christ. But when does that happen? When do we become ‘mature’ in Christ? When am I no longer an infant in the faith? It is comparable to the movement from childhood to adulthood in that it is more than the passing of a particular event or date, but rather a journey with the goal of looking more and more like the person of Jesus Christ in our minds, our hearts, and our actions. But still, how do I know?
With adulthood it is looking back in our lives and seeing that certain things are present in our lives that give us evidence that we are indeed not children anymore:
· our physical bodies are different – we don’t look like children anymore
· we have taken on adult responsibilities such as having a job, paying bills
· a certain independence in thought, feelings, and action from our parents
· the formation and responsibility of our own families
· that we have passed a legal date in our lives
Any of these alone would not necessarily indicate that one is an adult, and if any of these were missing from our lives, one could question if one was an adult. But a person who looks back on their lives and sees that these elements of adulthood are present in some significant degree could say, “Yes, I’m an adult and not a child.”
Our maturing into Christ-likeness can be explained similarly. There are elements of our life of faith in Christ that need to be present to show us as maturing and mature followers of Christ. In Ephesians, as Paul explains the reality of Christian unity with the analogy of the body, he also talks about what it means to be a mature follower of Christ:
Ephesians 4:11-16 11 And he gave the apostles, the prophets, the evangelists, the pastors and teachers, 12 to equip the saints for the work of ministry, for building up the body of Christ, 13 until we all attain to the unity of the faith and of the knowledge of the Son of God, to mature manhood, to the measure of the stature of the fullness of Christ, 14 so that we may no longer be children, tossed to and fro by the waves and carried about by every wind of doctrine, by human cunning, by craftiness in deceitful schemes. 15 Rather, speaking the truth in love, we are to grow up in every way into him who is the head, into Christ, 16 from whom the whole body, joined and held together by every joint with which it is equipped, when each part is working properly, makes the body grow so that it builds itself up in love.
Paul says we are to “…grow up in EVERY way in to him…” and as you examine this passage you can identify the following elements of our growing up in Christ: 1) how we think, 2) how we feel, 3) the choices we make, 4) our spiritual relationship with God, 5) our lifestyles, 6) our relationships with others, and 7) our serving others. Like adulthood, if we look back at our life and discover an aspect or some aspects lacking, then we could question whether we are maturing followers of Christ. But when we see the evidence of these elements of Christian maturity present in our journey, we know that we are indeed “…no longer children…” in the faith.
With that in mind, your pastors have made an all-out commitment this year and beyond to lead this church with discipleship in focus as expressed in the mission statement for VCBC: We are a community of faith, passionately committed to forming genuine followers of Jesus Christ. But a mission statement is just words unless steps are taken to actually form followers of Christ, and unless people are truly looking more and more like Christ. So the question is again, “How do we know?”
Part of the answer is that the pastors want to place into the hands of every member and person that participates at VCBC a tool that will allow them to evaluate broadly and comprehensively their life as a Christian. We are calling this questionnaire/survey the Christian Life Evaluation. At least once a year, and possibly at other strategic times, we want to invite everyone at VCBC to take this evaluation so that they can look back on their lives and see where they are at in their walk with Christ. Are the elements there for a maturing follower of Christ? What is missing? What is weak? The evaluation will cover the 7 areas identified above and involves a self-evaluation, as well as an evaluation to be completed by an ‘other’ person. This is not a test, nor is it a means to compare your life to someone else – it is a tool for spiritual growth, and as a tool its effectiveness is in how you use it. It is not an end in itself to get a ‘good’ evaluation.
By using this evaluation tool, we also want everyone at VCBC to develop at least annually, a spiritual growth plan. With no plan, with no goals, it’s like taking a bow and arrow, shooting it wherever, then drawing the target around wherever the arrow strikes. You don’t know what you are going to hit. But with a spiritual growth plan, our prayer is that every person at VCBC can identify and celebrate where they are strong, see their areas of weakness, and make specific commitments to address issues that are hindering their growth. With the help of a mentor, leader, pastor and/or small group, we hope this tool can be used as a way of keeping one’s self accountable for their spiritual growth; and also in a loving and honest way, keep one another accountable.
Your pastors are praying for your receptivity and participation in this desire to grow in all areas of our lives together. No one ought to feel like their decision to become a believer, getting baptized, and joining our church is the only goal of our efforts in reaching with the Good News in our community. The Good News is also that God desires us to be transformed into people who are looking more and more like Christ as they journey through life. We hope that this tool will help all of us be empowered by God to be successful in Jesus’ commission to us to “…make disciples of all nations.”
Blessings to you and your families as we launch into a year of growing spiritually together,
Pastor Dan
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